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ALERT..u don't get this often k..banu DA GREAT is writing de SECOND time, in a day..so yeh, embrace ur luck me child. hehe
I've got a theory! hehe, well, it's about the opposite sex, so this should be interesting. U bet.
First, let me tell you guys a story. Pretty delectable, if you ask me. This is a story..of a girl. (Reminds you of the song ryte) So yeah, of a girl, named Tisha. She was a cool, happy-go-lucky, intelligent girl. She had a bright smile for everyone and if she fell into trouble or dislikes someone, she never troubles anyone with her problems, unnecessarily. She sometimes chooses to ignore her problems, thinking that they will go away. We call it, waaat ppl? DAT'S RIGHT...DENIAL. This was one of her very few shortcomings. But she dealt quite well with it.
Up to the age of 17, Tisha handled all her problems well. From studies, to backstabbing friends, she knew it all. She was secretly proud and glad that she came throught it all unscathed, with great friends around. She had no real problem to deal with. She enjoyed life as it was, but she had to keep reminding herself that she should learn how to love herself and accept herself for who she was.Tisha had a less-than-pleasant way of knowing this and keeping it in thought always. She always paid the price. But never too heavy.
Let me explain further. You see, Tisha was always whining inwardly of what she did not have rather than be happy and content with what she already had. Of course, this was normal. All human beings are like that, aren't they? Heck, even I am. LOLS..so anyways, back to our girl. Tisha. She was popular, smart and had a sweet temperament. She never lashed out, always saw the reason behind people's displeasure. Somehow, she was always caught herself being dissatisfied with the outcome of a situation or any problem she had to deal with. Tisha always felt the need to please people, even strangers. She had to prove herself. She had no idea why and she was getting tired because of all the time she had to spend, thinking why she was as such. She had one important person to please, herself.
She had to get perfect score on mainly, her English paper. Any lower than perfect and she would turn gloomy. What made her even more upset would be someone else getting even a mark extra than her score. She hated it when she got Cs and Ds. SOmetimes, because of the stress she put on herself, she performend badly and she soon turned oblivious to the fact that the stress was causing all the unintended failure or less-than-expected results. Later, she felt like she just couldn't be bothered anymore. Her life still seemed perfect. O, and did i mention, our Tisha was still single. And yet, she was happy. Or so we are made to think.
Like everything else in her life, Tisha wanted to be happy. Perfectly. But she wasn't lucky in that good ol' love subject. She didn't want to depend on luck. But after a few failed flings, she finally came to accept, maybe just a little, as she adamantly and hard-headedly put, lady luck had something to do with it. She was confident, pretty, hardworking and sexy in her own sweet way. She was no pea-brain and could carry off any conversation well to the peak of anybody's interest, especially of course, guys. She approached guys that she was attracted to, while being the least interested of what they would think of her if she took the first move. If anyone wondered, she would just say, "Well, I AM doing a favour to them shy boys, ain't I?" And flashed that ever sweet, suggestive, and seemingly innocent smile. People were easily deluded. Not all of them though. But I guess, from the stories I heard, that people, especially guys, appreciated this trait in her. She was bold, and that was sexy to any guy.
So people..why then, did Tisha find it hard to get a steady boyfriend? Well, here comes my theory. Tisha only SEEMS confident and arrogant in a good way. She exudes it, but not internally. Believe or not, guys are aware of the energy and type of aura a lady carries. Seriously. I know my stuff aite.lols..aint kidding man. Notice how Serena Van der Woodsen from Gossip Girl sweeps any guy off his feet? And..she does it effortlessly, while Blair has to work her arse off to get someone as sexually vulnerable as Chuck Bass? When she knows so well, dat Chuck is head over heels in love with her? She lost Nate too, didn't she? You see, you might only see the reason to all that as her bitchy nature. Hello, there is SO much more to that than just bitchiness.
Serena not only exudes and shows off confidence. Forget about her incredibly amazing and alluring height and sexy figure. She has a smile for everybody, very much like our dear girl, Tisha. She is pretty, like Tisha. Nate couldn't explain why he went to Serena for that one-night-stand when he had a sweet-pie girlfriend, who happened to be a virgin as well at the time of the incident. Dan only saw her once in a party, in 8TH grade, freaking long ago, if i may add, and had been thinking of her ever since, crushed hard, and finally falls for her.
BUT, our TISHA...dear Tisha..o dear...why oh why did she not have this incredible stranglehold that Serena seemed to have on every guy? She was undeniably the IT girl. But did she feel all that good stuff about her inside her? Did she truly believe in all that? NO. Serena felt it. Believed it. She got all the good guys AND bad boys. Remember how Chuck was trying relentlessly to get her to warm his bed prior to him being her step- brother? Well, that explains it. :) Tisha got neither. SAD.
SO, what i'm really trying to say is that. Learn the trick. Learn how to feel confident. Remember, confidence is extremely sexy. Not only to guys, but other females as well. It will do you good to know that some might envy you for that incredible confidence and some will even get jealous. Envy and jealousy are two different things wokay...lols..Envy is less dangerous than jealousy and the person might actually want to be your friend, because he or she adores your character and wants to learn. Jealousy only means one thing; TOTAL ANNIHILATION OF SUBJECT. something like termination..tink...TERMINATOR.
So yeah, you don't wana only want to make people THINK you are confident, sexy and smart and a know-it-all when it comes to guys (and books, for the matter). You also want them to know it in their gut, that this girl is DA SHIT. She is the real thang..you want them to KNOW it, and NEFFER EFFER forget it. I SWEAR. You wana be a magnet? TRY IT (ME, since it IS MY theory..lols).
You hafta BELIEVE that you are hot, beautiful, pretty, wateva la, anything positive, if you want positive things to come into your life. Don't yearn, yearning is not the same thing as hoping and believing. To yearn is to be desperate. And desperation can be sensed, miles away. Remember, GUYS KNOW IT WHEN THEY SEE IT. You don't have to go announcing that you are desperate and seriously need a booty call or something. Like I said, THEY KNOW IT WHEN..THEY..SEEEEE it. So beware girls. Really. I mean business.
So let's see. You wana hot boyfriend? You want an intelligent one? A sporty one, perhaps? A reallllly romantic one? Or better still, let's cut to the chase. THE WHOLE DAMNED PACKAGE. Yeh, that's more like it. So be it. DREAM. It's not a freaking crime, aite. Dreams lead the way to great achievements. It's the first step. Failure isn't. (Like some freaking scholars or philosophers might say, seriously, screw them dudes. It's the new age, of the LAW OF ATTRACTION, but hello, dis is MY theory k, I only cited that for some sort of familiarity on the subject, thank you very much!)
K, so of all the qualities I mentioned, GIRL, you wana have all that? Well, the freaking sentence says it all. YOU WANT IT. You want to HAVE all that. So YES, you must have all that. YOU must POSSESS all those freaking qualities. Got it? If you don't, well, there's a way for that too. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. (Pat on the back, Banu, that rhymes like shit. i would LOVE to cite that properly, but I can't recall where I read it. I read alot, so yeah. No plagiarism intended! sorry!) So yeah, just like how you can fool your mind to think that you are happy, you can fool it to think that you are ALL THAT. lols..TRY IT (ME, u noe y)
And trust me, you will get what you are asking for. You will attract people as such. It will surprise you to know that looks has got nothing (maybe just a little) to do with all this. Maybe a little, meaning, MAKE-UP, REBONDING, CURLING PERMING, WATEVER.Ok,wtever as in whatever. There's no makeover as such. So ahem..anyways, yeah, learn how to improve how you look then. I mean, Serena ain't that pretty if you ask me. She has that height and body of course, but have you seen the way she walks and the way her lip pouts out unattractively when she's surprised and those beady eyes? Girl, you have GOT to be kidding me. She disguises it well with that BIG HAIR. (Note, when you want to pull away attention from your face, HAIR..HAIR..HAIRRR!) and blonde-ness! And also, with those amazing laughter and sunny, cheery personality. So there you go again. Personality cannot be corrected with any mountain amount of make-up or surgery, right? So, personality has to radiate! From inside!!!INSIDO!! (i can just HOPE dat der is no latin word, insido, with a different meaning..scarily sounds like libido ryte. male libido. ew.)
You've got one life. Live it like you've never lived it. (i don't know if that made sense). But seriously, give it go. Be what you want to possess. but then again, you wouldn't possess the guy, you would have gotten what you asked for. Whether you would like it, whether it makes you a happier person, or not, that's for afterthought :)
P/S Tisha is not yesterday's story yet! Await her perkembangan!
I've got a theory! hehe, well, it's about the opposite sex, so this should be interesting. U bet.
First, let me tell you guys a story. Pretty delectable, if you ask me. This is a story..of a girl. (Reminds you of the song ryte) So yeah, of a girl, named Tisha. She was a cool, happy-go-lucky, intelligent girl. She had a bright smile for everyone and if she fell into trouble or dislikes someone, she never troubles anyone with her problems, unnecessarily. She sometimes chooses to ignore her problems, thinking that they will go away. We call it, waaat ppl? DAT'S RIGHT...DENIAL. This was one of her very few shortcomings. But she dealt quite well with it.
Up to the age of 17, Tisha handled all her problems well. From studies, to backstabbing friends, she knew it all. She was secretly proud and glad that she came throught it all unscathed, with great friends around. She had no real problem to deal with. She enjoyed life as it was, but she had to keep reminding herself that she should learn how to love herself and accept herself for who she was.Tisha had a less-than-pleasant way of knowing this and keeping it in thought always. She always paid the price. But never too heavy.
Let me explain further. You see, Tisha was always whining inwardly of what she did not have rather than be happy and content with what she already had. Of course, this was normal. All human beings are like that, aren't they? Heck, even I am. LOLS..so anyways, back to our girl. Tisha. She was popular, smart and had a sweet temperament. She never lashed out, always saw the reason behind people's displeasure. Somehow, she was always caught herself being dissatisfied with the outcome of a situation or any problem she had to deal with. Tisha always felt the need to please people, even strangers. She had to prove herself. She had no idea why and she was getting tired because of all the time she had to spend, thinking why she was as such. She had one important person to please, herself.
She had to get perfect score on mainly, her English paper. Any lower than perfect and she would turn gloomy. What made her even more upset would be someone else getting even a mark extra than her score. She hated it when she got Cs and Ds. SOmetimes, because of the stress she put on herself, she performend badly and she soon turned oblivious to the fact that the stress was causing all the unintended failure or less-than-expected results. Later, she felt like she just couldn't be bothered anymore. Her life still seemed perfect. O, and did i mention, our Tisha was still single. And yet, she was happy. Or so we are made to think.
Like everything else in her life, Tisha wanted to be happy. Perfectly. But she wasn't lucky in that good ol' love subject. She didn't want to depend on luck. But after a few failed flings, she finally came to accept, maybe just a little, as she adamantly and hard-headedly put, lady luck had something to do with it. She was confident, pretty, hardworking and sexy in her own sweet way. She was no pea-brain and could carry off any conversation well to the peak of anybody's interest, especially of course, guys. She approached guys that she was attracted to, while being the least interested of what they would think of her if she took the first move. If anyone wondered, she would just say, "Well, I AM doing a favour to them shy boys, ain't I?" And flashed that ever sweet, suggestive, and seemingly innocent smile. People were easily deluded. Not all of them though. But I guess, from the stories I heard, that people, especially guys, appreciated this trait in her. She was bold, and that was sexy to any guy.
So people..why then, did Tisha find it hard to get a steady boyfriend? Well, here comes my theory. Tisha only SEEMS confident and arrogant in a good way. She exudes it, but not internally. Believe or not, guys are aware of the energy and type of aura a lady carries. Seriously. I know my stuff aite.lols..aint kidding man. Notice how Serena Van der Woodsen from Gossip Girl sweeps any guy off his feet? And..she does it effortlessly, while Blair has to work her arse off to get someone as sexually vulnerable as Chuck Bass? When she knows so well, dat Chuck is head over heels in love with her? She lost Nate too, didn't she? You see, you might only see the reason to all that as her bitchy nature. Hello, there is SO much more to that than just bitchiness.
Serena not only exudes and shows off confidence. Forget about her incredibly amazing and alluring height and sexy figure. She has a smile for everybody, very much like our dear girl, Tisha. She is pretty, like Tisha. Nate couldn't explain why he went to Serena for that one-night-stand when he had a sweet-pie girlfriend, who happened to be a virgin as well at the time of the incident. Dan only saw her once in a party, in 8TH grade, freaking long ago, if i may add, and had been thinking of her ever since, crushed hard, and finally falls for her.
BUT, our TISHA...dear Tisha..o dear...why oh why did she not have this incredible stranglehold that Serena seemed to have on every guy? She was undeniably the IT girl. But did she feel all that good stuff about her inside her? Did she truly believe in all that? NO. Serena felt it. Believed it. She got all the good guys AND bad boys. Remember how Chuck was trying relentlessly to get her to warm his bed prior to him being her step- brother? Well, that explains it. :) Tisha got neither. SAD.
SO, what i'm really trying to say is that. Learn the trick. Learn how to feel confident. Remember, confidence is extremely sexy. Not only to guys, but other females as well. It will do you good to know that some might envy you for that incredible confidence and some will even get jealous. Envy and jealousy are two different things wokay...lols..Envy is less dangerous than jealousy and the person might actually want to be your friend, because he or she adores your character and wants to learn. Jealousy only means one thing; TOTAL ANNIHILATION OF SUBJECT. something like termination..tink...TERMINATOR.
So yeah, you don't wana only want to make people THINK you are confident, sexy and smart and a know-it-all when it comes to guys (and books, for the matter). You also want them to know it in their gut, that this girl is DA SHIT. She is the real thang..you want them to KNOW it, and NEFFER EFFER forget it. I SWEAR. You wana be a magnet? TRY IT (ME, since it IS MY theory..lols).
You hafta BELIEVE that you are hot, beautiful, pretty, wateva la, anything positive, if you want positive things to come into your life. Don't yearn, yearning is not the same thing as hoping and believing. To yearn is to be desperate. And desperation can be sensed, miles away. Remember, GUYS KNOW IT WHEN THEY SEE IT. You don't have to go announcing that you are desperate and seriously need a booty call or something. Like I said, THEY KNOW IT WHEN..THEY..SEEEEE it. So beware girls. Really. I mean business.
So let's see. You wana hot boyfriend? You want an intelligent one? A sporty one, perhaps? A reallllly romantic one? Or better still, let's cut to the chase. THE WHOLE DAMNED PACKAGE. Yeh, that's more like it. So be it. DREAM. It's not a freaking crime, aite. Dreams lead the way to great achievements. It's the first step. Failure isn't. (Like some freaking scholars or philosophers might say, seriously, screw them dudes. It's the new age, of the LAW OF ATTRACTION, but hello, dis is MY theory k, I only cited that for some sort of familiarity on the subject, thank you very much!)
K, so of all the qualities I mentioned, GIRL, you wana have all that? Well, the freaking sentence says it all. YOU WANT IT. You want to HAVE all that. So YES, you must have all that. YOU must POSSESS all those freaking qualities. Got it? If you don't, well, there's a way for that too. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. (Pat on the back, Banu, that rhymes like shit. i would LOVE to cite that properly, but I can't recall where I read it. I read alot, so yeah. No plagiarism intended! sorry!) So yeah, just like how you can fool your mind to think that you are happy, you can fool it to think that you are ALL THAT. lols..TRY IT (ME, u noe y)
And trust me, you will get what you are asking for. You will attract people as such. It will surprise you to know that looks has got nothing (maybe just a little) to do with all this. Maybe a little, meaning, MAKE-UP, REBONDING, CURLING PERMING, WATEVER.Ok,wtever as in whatever. There's no makeover as such. So ahem..anyways, yeah, learn how to improve how you look then. I mean, Serena ain't that pretty if you ask me. She has that height and body of course, but have you seen the way she walks and the way her lip pouts out unattractively when she's surprised and those beady eyes? Girl, you have GOT to be kidding me. She disguises it well with that BIG HAIR. (Note, when you want to pull away attention from your face, HAIR..HAIR..HAIRRR!) and blonde-ness! And also, with those amazing laughter and sunny, cheery personality. So there you go again. Personality cannot be corrected with any mountain amount of make-up or surgery, right? So, personality has to radiate! From inside!!!INSIDO!! (i can just HOPE dat der is no latin word, insido, with a different meaning..scarily sounds like libido ryte. male libido. ew.)
You've got one life. Live it like you've never lived it. (i don't know if that made sense). But seriously, give it go. Be what you want to possess. but then again, you wouldn't possess the guy, you would have gotten what you asked for. Whether you would like it, whether it makes you a happier person, or not, that's for afterthought :)
P/S Tisha is not yesterday's story yet! Await her perkembangan!
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SOOO copyrighted from tears of love man =)
HAHA.
not suing u or it tho =)