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Of marriages, engagements, children...and whatever new Banu is trying.

Things don't always happen according to plan. We plan, God decides, right?

I don't know if I ever had a plan.

I don't know why things have not gone the way they were supposed to. It's not easy seeing all my friends creating their own nests, like all normal 27-year-olds would do. Maybe my circle is such. That 20-somethings are supposed to be married and reproduce. And then there are the engagements. On a daily basis.

When it first hits your timeline, you're like, meh.

And then after the second, third and the tenth update, you're finally hit with the inevitable existential crisis. Like, what are you doing with your life Banu? You're not even getting to know anyone let alone be engaged...

My idea of a companion is different. I don't think of him as a husband though it may say so on paper. I don't think I'll ever conform to the traditional idea of being in a marriage and then childbirth. See I didn't even say family. I said childbirth lol. Cos I…

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