Of Being Attached and...

Been noticing lately, loads of me frens on facebook have been in and out of relationships man..i swear, it's like...today ur in..and da next day ur out..only dis, carries more emotional baggage den de fashion world..hmm..

So yeah, people were really on da go of being SAD ya noe..and it didn't make banu DA GREAT very happy..obviously la..ade org sad, cryin their hearts out..n lu nk pigi happy happy ka..no way ryte...so yeah la..felt like..hmm, time for thinking.

You very well know that i love to think..i don't freaking noe why..lolz.but yeah..i think and observe all the time, which is why i have the tendency to over analyse things. Aint sure if that's a good thing or what..but things unfold easier that way.

Ok people...you see...being single might seem like you're pathetic and nobody wants you. But seriously, it's not all dat bad..lolz...i mean, it's NOT BAD AT ALL..i swear..you wouldn't know the difference of being single (or you wouldn't remember) and being attached. No gender bias all here k..really. Men and women, guys and girls alike. All of u.

Just try to recall, how was it like when you guys were single. You had all of you, to yourself. No sharing all, na? Once you confess your love to dat someone, you are like his or her "possession". You know, frankly speaking, i hate dat notion man..dat de dude owns you or something. Trust me, i HAVE been in a relationship before, aite..aku tau..lolz..To me, it was a plain turn off..no two ways about it..

I didn't quite know it at the time, but it freaking was annoying..sure was man..could have been one of the many things that led to the break-up..dat reminds me, i hafta make things clear...dats a different story anyways..

Let's get back to matters at hand. So yeah, once you are someone's "belonging" (ew), your time, your prerogatives, your freakin MIND, every damn ting, sort of belongs to the guy or girl. Most often den not, it's de girl la..dey become possessions of the guy..not tryin'a be biased or anyting la..chill..it's true weh..ko tengok aje la weh..mmg betol..it's like a case of aneh tapi betol..

When this happens, you don't have you to yourself anymore. It's sad ryte...you might feel, oh well...i love the guy..so wat if he asks dis and dat..well...it is gonna wear u down sooner or later, honey...der's another word for this; commitment...ahahaha..sorry..just hadta laff..dono la..dat word...AHAHAHAH!...

I read this article in da paper de other day...and der was this lady..29 years old..she used this punchline; SINGLE AND LETHAL...dei..is dat chunted or wat la..i swear..awesomeness galore la..i adapted it..heheh...

So yeah, i don't view de single ting as pathetic, lonely or desperate or anything else negative..it's like a statement..dat ur empowered, independent and most important of all, emotionally stable. Eh, i aint sayin dat those who are not single are gila or wat la..just dat, it makes no difference. Just dat, singletons like me, can have the pleasure and security of knowing that we can be happy being single as well. :)

Someone once said dat you only "fall" in love...no fool ever said u rise in love right..lolz..this can b true..or false..or ikut suke u la ek...seriously..it all depends on how u look at it..

You make ur choices rememba...if ppl are gonna be so upset and end relationships like nobody's business...well...ive got 3 things to say to y'all

~ if being attached is takin suc a freakin huge toll on ur well-being...might as well don't get into any in the nearest time la ryte..wats happening to ur natural defence mechanism man..lolz..i swear..time for enlightenment..

~if ur happy to end it, just comment der after ur relationship status gets published on facebook k..js say..BUT IM HAPPY..FREAKIN HAPPEEEE!!...lolz..it wil solve and save all those "hey, wat happened? are u okay?" "hey, girl.! wat happened!".."why suddenly?"...these ppl aint being nosy dude..dey js care alot about u..or dey cud b plain gossipmongers looking for material..or just plain...nosy..

~Facebook might nid to reconsider the amount of exposure dey give us la ryte...mmg terbangang sekali bile u chge ur relationship status and DA WHOLE DAMN WORLD noes about it...malu siot!

Pendek kate, in a nutshell, kesimpulannyer, justeru, oleh itu, natijahnyer...
You know what's right..everybody does..u noe wats best..ur instincts are always der to guard u from pain and hurt...just listen to it...